My dinner 11.01.19

Assalammualaikum and Hi. Today I would like to share my dinner last night. This is what we call as 'Bakso'. It's a simple dish but have a great taste. Most of my family member love the taste. And my mom made it for us. What's the ingredient i'm not sure since I only know how to eat. What will you have in the bowl of Bakso? My version, I will only have some noodle, soup, meatball and chili sauce. And when you eat bakso you must eat together with chili sauce and it's home made sauce. Otherwise it will taste bland. So here a big thanks to my mom coz prepared this dish for us. Till we meet soon.😁

How people will use you...🤨

Assalammualaikum.

First of all, thank you for who still follow my blog.

As per topic I pick today, it's kind of happen to me. I made an experiment to this kind of people. "You really like to use me in a good way."😏  That's it!

Let's learn about it. Maybe there's some useful tips for you to abstain yourself from them.

1. They will talk to you in a very very soft tone.😮 They surely will ask how was your day today, what do you eat today and other's question that only been ask when they need you. Lastly in the sweetest tone they will ask this question - I need you to do something, can you help me?😒😒😒😒😒

And what will I do. WAKE UP!! Hello friends people treated you like that when they need you. So realise! Actually they don't need you. Maybe they didn't even think you as their friends. So make a zone. Comfort zone between us. You need me because of work than it will be the same for me. Be PROFESSIONAL even if it's annoying.

2. Some people love to give something as the gratitude. And it's only when you do something for them.😓😓 Still they will talk to you in the nice way " Thanks you for helping me the other day and here a gift for you as a gratitude." With a really 'SINCERE' smile.

And what will I do. "I'm sorry but I can't accept this. It's my job then I will do and I getting paid when i'm doing it." That's it. I learn to reject if it's unnecessary. And if they intent I will take it and keep it or donate it. I tell myself "Because you don't deserve it."🤥🤥

Conclusion, when people want to use someone the will act nice till we don't even notice the action. Just do what you should. And be yourself.

"Appreciate people around you."